In Sweden,
a frightened eight-year-old ran down the street. But little Tim Skold
(AKA Tim Tim, AKA Tim x 3 Skold, now vocalist of Shotgun Messiah), couldn't
outrun the two female strangers, both a good five years older and detrmined
to kiss him. Tears streamed down Tim's cheeks and the long curls of his
shoulder-lenght blond hair flew in his eyes, but they caught him, held
him down and kissed Tim all over. "I'm glad I don't have a weak heart,"
today's Tim comments. "I could have died!"
This little
interlude wasn't Tim's first encounter with the opposite sex. When Tim
was about six, he and the little girl next door built a "cave"
with chairs and blankets on his porch, where they conducted physical exams.
"Playing doctor was quite innocent," Tims says, "because
at that age, only so many of the parts are different! It wasn't an affair;
it was two consenting minors doing their thing!"
Tim grew
up eating breakfast in front of a psychedelic poster of Bob Dylan with
rainbow colors around his head. His dad was a professional drummer, and
Tim was motivated to get in a "playback" band at age eleven.
Using Kiss, Bowie and Sweet songs playing on a cassette player, Tim's
band would "fake it" for people at school meetings. Says Tim,
"It was more of a comedy act, but we took it quite seriously! I borrowed
my dad's old mod stagewear - red, white and blue-striped hip-hugger pants
and a suede jacket...very Rolling Stones!"
At age
twelve, Tim rented a bass by the month, and by thirteen, he was playing
and singing in his first real band. "I would skate to gigs on a skateboard
and balance my bass and amp with room for one foot in the back!"
he recalls. "I don't think we had many admirers - male or female."
Tim still saw his pretty neighbor, but it was "more buddy-buddy than
anything else," Tim admits. "We didn't push the 'doctor' thing!"
Tim's rehersal
for a school talent show was tape-recorded by his music teacher, who played
it for all the classes. "I was almost an instant rock star,"
Tim says. His band took the act to school exchange programs, and performed
at an amusement park in Gothenburg, Sweden's second largest city.
"That's
when girls started getting impressed," says Tim, and confesses, "I
lost my virginity byt I wasn't sure I liked it. I must have been 14, and
so was she. Making out at her parents' house, we just went that extra
little mile somehow. I thought it was pretty weird. She kept talking about
sailing on pink clouds, but I think I was in chock!"
Tim's next
girlfriend was his first real love, and they would sleep over at each
other's houses. "In Sweden," Tim explains, "people understand
that kids are going to do stuff like experiment with sex, and drugs like
alcohol and cigarettes. Parents feel it's better to have it happen in
the house in a situation of mutual respect and understanding, rather than
have it happen in the streets." |
During
this time, Tim met guitarist Harry Cody at a New Year's Eve party and
formed a creative partnership that would last over a decade to become
the nucleus of today's Shotgun Messiah. "He was already a local guitar
hero," says Tim. "Our dream was to come to the U.S. to be rock
stars. We plotted and schemed to make it happen."
After three
years, Tim's first serious love relationship enden when he and his lady
realized they had grown apart socially. Tim moved in to his own apartment
at 17 and took a factory job making military equipment. One night, he
met his second serious girlfriend outside of a rock club, a relationship
which lasted the four years until Tim came to the U.S. "I was too
broke to get in the club," Tim says. "She asked me to walk her
home and come up for tea. I moved in the next day. I didn't have any stuff
besides my bass and a boom box. I was very mobile!"
Tim lived
with his girlfriend for about a half-year before he was drafted into the
army. "I brought my bass to the base," he says, "and stood
in the shower stalls and practiced after everyone went to sleep!"
He kept rehearsing with Harry on weekends. Once out out of the army, Tim
took odd jobs as a library assistant and gardener at a bathhouse. "With
girls sunbathing topless in the summertime," Tim remembers, "I
was Mr. Party!" Tim is amazed he kept his relationship going because,
he discloses, "I was stuck-up and thought I was God's gift to women
- especially when I was drunk!"
At 19,
Tim went to Stockholm with Harry to make a record they could use as a
demo to reach the American market. Their determination paid off. The Shotgun
Messiah guys have released their second U.S. album, 'Second Coming', and
Tim now resides in sunny L.A., where he finds American women similiar
to their Swedish counterparts. "There might be big difference,! he
allows, "but since I've always hung out with the rock 'n' roll culture,
I haven't found a lot of differences at all."
As was
true about his first girlfriends, Tim prefers a happy, upbeat, cheerful,
outgoing brunette who is "kinda thin with a nice chest." It's
important that she knows what she wants and is capable of honest communication
and mutual respect.
"Music
takes up most of my time," Tim says. "I have tons of music that
has to come out somehow, and I'd go insane without that outlet. A girl
has to realize that, and be an individual with interests and activities
that don't include me."
In his
three years in L.A., Tim has observed many "clichéd male/female
relationships where you aren't supposed to be friends and you have to
play games as if you're opponents. I hate that," he says. "I'm
striving for the ultimate of lovers who can be the ultimate of friends." |